I have 3 boys and the testosterone is dripping off the walls in my house. I find it hard for myself to make books focused around boy stuff. I love the glitter, sparkle, shine and all the good stuff that comes with it. The other day I downloaded some of the glitter splatters from here and used them in a page of book. My middle son who will be 9 next week got very very upset that I made the page girly by using it. So how can I use that stuff when without it making it look to girly as my son stated?